Dating to relating not Erotic chat
Years ago, when Jake was developing his Dating ∞ Relating ∞ Mating (DRM) philosophy, I had the privilege of learning it from him directly, before it was available to the public.
Hope and I then used the DRM model to co-create our own marriage.
It has some original and useful concepts in it, and makes an attempt to simplify the world of dating for men. Rx stood out for one thing, it would be the maturity of his perspectives and advice. For a start, many of the perspectives I have towards relationships and women that took me quite a while to understand - from the accumulation of experience rather than dating advice (which didn't exist at the time) - he has included here. For example, his insights into the importance of women feeling 'safe' and what that means are all valuable and true.
Unfortunately, the good stuff is hidden within a lot of bad advice that would confuse beginners. And these are often underestimated in dating advice, especially where it concerns relationship skills advice. In Dating to Relating the author begins by discussing the weaknesses of other dating authors' products, and telling you why his is better.
There are two big issues with it: the approaches are outdated and the part of the system used to understand what type a woman is, doesn't work.
But, when you are missing the fundamentals (which are not taught by most parents, teachers or even psychologists), these relationships end in failure.
For some time now, my wife Hope and I have wanted to create a world-class romantic relationship course to solve this problem.
Instead I am exploring the terrain of “I enjoy relating”.
These are two very different landscapes, althought the latter profoundly benefits the former, more than I realised.
There is a mix of good/ mature advice and bad/misleading advice in this book. hammers on about his philosophy with women and how it leads to healthier relationships and greater satisfaction for you.